Beautiful, handsome, rich, well educated, and... The list goes on. And everybody has one whether they believe so or not. Nobody wants to be left out of the running when it comes to winning the race for love. And, while anybody can find love at any age, it is a wise decision to slow down and determine if your list is realistic. And even if it is--- once you mix your ingredients for your new mate together, whether or not it would turn out to be the person you really want and need. But when looking for a good, quality relationship there are a few things that should be on your list of must haves.
Your weaknesses should be their strengths.
Maybe you are one to easily upset. Having a mate around who is patient and good at handling disputes can be good for you. You can learn from them how to become more temperate. And if your mate has a habit of overspending, if you are good at budgeting, you can take on the responsibility of managing the money in the home.
Your strengths along with theirs will help you two to have a good, working relationship.
You should have the same lifestyle.
It want help you to be together if your mate is a con artist who is looking to pull off his next big money scam so that he can go bask in the sun if you are interested in raising three kids and joining the PTA. However, if you both enjoy partying, you will probably be able to give it a go.
You are attracted to each other.
Your mate doesn't have to be a super star in order for you to become turned on by him. But they do have to be desirable to you. Your mate will begin to look elsewhere for love and affection if you turn him down for sex on a regular basis.
You like each other.
When you talk about your mate with your friends and family, you should be able to mention something other than physical attributes and what they can do for you financially. They should have some personal qualities that you find enduring such as their sensitivity and kind heartedness.
You want to be together.
